Eulogy · speaking about your friend

A eulogy for your friend,
in your words.

Answer 8 careful questions. What comes back is built only from what you said — no jokes, no borrowed quotations, nothing invented.

Begin quietlySay what you actually mean, in the words you'd choose.
What you'll be asked

The questions are the part that helps.

  1. 1

    Who were they, to the people who knew them best?

    There's no wrong answer here. Start anywhere.

  2. 2

    Is there something physical you remember about them — their hands, their voice, the way they moved?

    An odd question, and skip it if nothing comes. It's just that small details stay with people where descriptions don't.

  3. 3

    Describe an ordinary day with them.

    Not a birthday or a holiday — a Tuesday.

  4. 4

    Was there something they always said?

    A phrase, a piece of advice, a joke they wore out.

  5. 5

    What did they teach you without meaning to?

…and 3 more, plus follow-ups when an answer has more in it than you gave.

How long it should run

4 minutes is the target for a for a friend. We count the words and tell you the spoken time before you commit to it.

What it costs

$24 once, after you've read a third of it. Cue cards, teleprompter and unlimited revisions are included, not upsold.

Who sees it

Nobody. It lives at a private link that keeps working, with or without an account.

Questions people ask

How long should a for a friend eulogy be?+

About 4 minutes — roughly 520 words. Shorter is almost always better. Nobody has ever wished a eulogy were longer, and a short one is far easier to get through.

Will it sound like me?+

It's assembled entirely from your own answers — your stories, your details, your phrasing. Nothing is invented. You can paste something you've written and it will match your rhythm.

What do I get for the price?+

The full speech, unlimited revisions, printable cue cards, a teleprompter with a pace timer, a night-before tips sheet, and a private link that keeps working. $24 once — there is no subscription.

Is it appropriate to use this for a eulogy?+

It doesn't write about someone it never met — it asks you, and arranges what you say. The questions are written for grief: what their hands looked like when they worked, what you'd want a stranger to understand. Many people find the questions are the useful part.

Take as long as you need.

It saves as you go. Nothing is charged until you've read a third of the speech.

Begin quietly
Lengths we handle: 2 min (short and warm), 4 min (the sweet spot), 6 min (room for two stories).
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